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I have no experience with girls, can you help me out?

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Question - (17 March 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 18 March 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, *b123 writes:

hi

I'm a 14 year old boy, I have never really had a girlfiend and not too sure how to ask her out or where to take her on a date, what to talk to her about, what to do with her?

I need some advice but it's hard to explain but I don't really know where to start, how to be round her what to do with her and so on as I have never really had a girl friend, I have no experience

Please help.

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A female reader, babycakes999 United Kingdom +, writes (18 March 2008):

a girl likes it when a guy is honest and shows how he feels.start talking to her and get a good conversation going. Then ask her if she wanted to go somewhere sometime. maybe to the cinema with a couple of your mates and hers. trust me if your honest and kind she will proberly say yes

good luck x

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2008):

Hey gawjuz im same age as you and have had many of boyfriends. Act yoru normal self around her, because thats the you she feel in love with. Dont take her to the movies, that is pretty boring these dayss unless shes really into movies. Maybe go for a walk along the beach and watch the sunset. My current boyfriend does that with me and i just think its so romantic i love it, peaceful and a walk never harms you!! Find out more about her too then that way you can talk about stuff she likes.

I say just act your self buddy thats all you need to do.

Goodluck and have fun

xx

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2008):

If MUSIC be the food of love, play on!

talk about music!

then listen to some together.

Good luck

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A female reader, Lovesick24 United States +, writes (18 March 2008):

Lovesick24 agony auntMan, you have the same problem as me. It would be hard for her to say no to you though, if you gave her flowers or a poem or something and asked her out. I know that I would feel horrible saying no to a guy that did that. Who knows? Maybe she likes you too. Personally, I like guys with manners and don't swear without good reason. Why don't you take her to a movie? That way you can keep talking to a minimum and you'll have time to think of what to say. Also, talking to some of her friends would be a good idea. If they tell her about you, then you have a better chance of getting a good first impression. For example, if my friends told me a guy liked me, I might give him more of a chance when he asked me out. This is just some ideas though, I have zero dating experience.

Sincerly,

Lovesick

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