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writes: Hi my name's Chris and I'm 16. I have this issue, that when I'm with someone, everything feels so wrong. I never admit I'm in a relationship, and if i get in trouble of any sort under any circumstances, I feel as though I have to break up with the girl, even though they aren't related to the issue.I'm affraid to instigate anything, or kiss in public. What's wrong with me???Will it change? Reply to this Question
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reader, Anastasia  +, writes (20 August 2005):
 It simply means that you are not ready for a relationship as yet. Just have friends for now...really I don't feel that you are ready for a relationship. Nothing is wrong with you...as you say. You are young for now..relax and don't try so hard. It is better to be ready for it instead of not being ready and getting hurt or hurting someone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2005): You have what i believe is a fear of commitment to a relationship. Many people have that at your age and sometimes your family environment and upbringing might have to play a part in that. From my experience, i think it is also deeper sense of insecurity of trusting other person. Did you share a good relationship with you mom? Have you had any close friends whom you trust unconditionally? This might answer some of your questions.
Some people have these feelings from their childhood and some may develop as a result of a bad experience. However, it is important to keep trying and meeting different people to broaden your understanding about relationships.
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