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writes:So there's a guy (as there usually is, huh?)and we are the best of friends. For some reason we grew apart last year and didn't see each other for an entire six months, until suddenly i was hanging out with him one weekend, and the one after-- and now regularly. And suddenly we're the best of friends again-- I sit on his lap and we hold hands, link arms and do all the stuff best friends do, y'know? But I'm starting to like him. And it's hard because we'll be play-fighting or whatever like we used to because I just get the urge to jump him or whatever XD at the risk of sounding like a crazy rapist I guess.I think I could get over it-- I was thinking maybe it was just because I hadn't seen him in a while. I can't really ask my friends about it because they're all his friends and will meddle. Most people think we're a couple-- anyone who isn't in our group immediately assumes that me and him go out.. so I wonder whether I should tell him my feelings or not?They all joke that I have him wrapped around my little finger-- and I really adore him. So what should I do, I guess?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2011): That's a really hard question. I think the best way to go around it is to make a list of pros and cons. Know if you disclose that you like him and he likes you back it will be great! Also be aware of how things could get if you disclose that and it doesn't work the way you thought it would. It could change a lot of things.
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