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Is he afraid of commitment or he just doesn't like me?

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Question - (28 March 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 29 March 2011)
A age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I might go to GRAD school in three years (my second bachelors) out of state. guy im dating says he is too scared he will fall in love with me, and wouldn't wanna deal with me moving. now, i might stay in state for grad school, not move, and he is still saying im too good for him. i told him yesterday i can't be friends with him cuz i want more, and he said he wouldn't call me. but, he calls me everyday, acts like he likes me, and seemed kinda sad that i told him i can't be friends. is he afraid of commitment or does he really not like me?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2011):

I just don't think you are the right match for each other. I think it's the latter. It seems like he is looking for excuses to explain why he "can't fall in love with you." Falling in love is not something you plan. That's why it is called "falling" in love. It's unexpected, it just happens.

So to come up with excuses makes me think he is just dicking you around a bit. It sucks that he can't just be honest. But don't be fooled. This guy is not worth your time. He is not interested and he doesn't have the balls to come clean. Forget him.

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