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writes:My and a close friends have known each other for quite sometime and we love being around each other and talking. I believe I may have feelings for her but I'm afraid she doesn't feel the same way about me. And I don't want to freak her out, I just don't want to lose her. Should I tell her how I feel?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2008): Telling her how you feel won't ruin anything. It's better just to tell her and know one way or the other then worrying about it all the time. If she always wants to spend time with you and you guys are great friends then she probably like you, and feels the same way. Just tell her staight up. If she doesn't feel the same, then you can still just be friends, and i'm sure she will be fine with it.
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reader, saltwater  +, writes (15 July 2008):
 You don't need to freak her out, just ask to take her to social places like cinemas or take her for a relaxed drink in the summer sunset or something then you can tell her in a friendly atmosphere.
Cliches I know, but they're things that work.
Although it sounds like you two obviously love being around each other so why not just tell her how you feel straight up? You never know, she may feel the same way! And if she doesn't, who's died? No-one. It doesn't mean you can't still be friends.
Tho I'm pretty sure she might have feelings for you as well. Good luck.
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