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I have feelings for my best friend, but I'm afraid to tell him. Help!

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Question - (15 July 2012) 2 Answers - (Newest, 16 July 2012)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Dear Cupid,

I've known one of my best guy friends since I can remember, we've always done things together, we live somewhat close, and we are in the same grade. I've never felt this way until this summer. I've realized that I like him more than a friend...but I'm just too afraid that if I tell him, our friendship will be ruined. And I don't know if he feels the same way about me. I don't want to push anything too far where we don't talk anymore. I want to take things a step farther but I don't know if he's ready to handle the fact that I like him more than a best friend. Please help me!!!!!!!!!!!.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2012):

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Thank you so much!! :)

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A female reader, MissTellAll United States +, writes (15 July 2012):

MissTellAll agony auntI think you should start off by being more flirtatious right now. Just very subtley. When you hug him, make it last longer, when he looks cute, compliment him, but don't be obviois about it. See how he responds. If it seems like he may like you too, go for it and tell him. If it doesn't, you may just want to keep those feelings to yourself and look elsewhere for a boyfriend. It sucks to do, but it happens sometimes.

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