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writes:my wife and i are unhappily married. we haven't slept together nor do we desire to in years. i have fallen in love with my wife's sister. i think she feels the same way about me. i have felt this way about her since this past january. i think about her all the time. i want to tell her how i feel about her and hopefully start a romantic relationship with her,but i am afraid. anyone have any advise. i am going crazy because i think about her all the time. i really love her. Reply to this Question
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reader, LauraE  +, writes (30 July 2007):
I think your marriage is over, but I also think you should not get involved with her sister. It is way too complicated. Think of the embarrassment and bad feeling that would exist between the sisters and the rest of the family. They would all take sides – almost certainly against you. What about family occasions – can you imagine turning up to a wedding or party with your ex-wife’s sister?!!! You wouldn’t be welcome would you? It isn’t worth it. Move away from all of them and look for someone else who you can love without creating a huge mess.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2007): I think you should split from your wife - step 1. However to go with her sister..... eeek Are you sure you want that kind of tie-in? I mean you would always be bumping into your ex and it will create so much friction. This is a family after all - and one that existed before you came on the scene. I think you falling for her sister is 'convenient' and has happened because you come into contact with her. Best advice for less mess, heartache and devastation is to move on from BOTH relationships and find someone new who makes you feel great and who you can love without additional baggage of this scale getting in the way. There have to be other people out there for you - you just need to find one.
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reader, Chilly +, writes (30 July 2007):
love and lust are very different things. what you just explained was lust. sit down and try to identify exactly what you are feeling, and then go from there. dont rush into anything youll regret - which is very easy to do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2007): follow your heart and find out how she feels and then if your unhappy tell your wife you want a divorce no need in draging out a unhappy marrige
good luck doll
sincerly luva
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