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41-50,
anonymous
writes:please help me..I have fallen for my colleague who is married.He is also very much in love with me and dont want to harm my prestige.But we both know that it cannot be fruitful as we are both married and that is why we dont want to proceed physically.I am so troubled,and devastated as i am stuck in the middle .besides our other colleagues have already suspected that something is brewing.This have gone along for more than one year..what strategy shall i take and what is my position? Reply to this Question
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reader, pepper27  +, writes (11 July 2012):
 Hi hunny
To be honest if you have been seeing this man for a year do you not feel its time to tell both your husband and his wife the truth so they at least move on....You can't keep doing this and being happy it doesn't work that way...4 lives are involved here not just 2. There is no mention of children.
You have to come to a decision and stick to it, Then and only then can you move forward.....
Take care with love Pepsi xxxxx
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reader, AuntyEm +, writes (11 July 2012):
 The only way anyone can help you is to tell you to STOP being involved with this man.
Feelings are very hard to get rid of but all the while you are around this man your feelings for him will never be able to die.
I cannot tell you to have an affair with him because I think it's wrong and it hurts people. There is no magical cure, no third otion...you either carry on as you are doing, or you leave your job and cut all contact with him.
I know what indian culture is like and if you pursue him, it will be bad for you...so just STOP.
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