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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I want to break-up with me boyfriend. We have been together a year and a half and I put up with a lot of crap in the begining of our relationship (him getting drunk and taking it out on me) Although we have resolved this problem now (and for the record he was never violent to me but he was an angry drunk) I feel I put up with too much for too long before taking a stand and now my love for him has faded. He says we can work through this and he will try to help me in whatever way I need, but I'm not sure this will work. To make matters worse I miscarried last week, which was a total shock as we certainly were'nt trying for a baby. However this has just confused me even more because I'm not sure if leaving him is the best thing to do now or not, my hormones are still all over the place and I'm so scared of making the wrong decision. We both live at my parents at the moment and are meant to be moving into our own house next week but the way I'm feeling I just want to curl up in a ball and disappear. Please give your advice as some-one out of the situation as I feel like I'm going mad.
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reader, DV1  +, writes (30 May 2007):
 I think that you need to be given time and space to deal with your miscarraige. Go to your husband, and cry on his shoulder. He may be dealing with it in his own way. There's always a possibility of re-igniting love for two people who love each other. Don't look for a reason for things to be worse. It's probably just depression from your miscarraige. If he wants to be there, tell him your needs, and your boundaries, and let him try.
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