New here? Register in under one minute   Already a member? Login244973 questions, 1084336 answers  

  DearCupid.ORG relationship advice
  Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!Search
 New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us .  Articles  . Sitemap

I have crush and I think he likes me back. Help!

Tagged as: Age differences<< Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (19 November 2010) 5 Answers - (Newest, 15 February 2013)
A female United States age 26-29, *oveLikeWoe writes:

Let me tell you a little bit about me and him. I'm 16, he's 26. I had him last year, now I have him again my junior year for U.S. History.

Last year when I had him I didn't think much about him at all to be honest. Towards the end of the school year last year, I don't know what happened. One day I left school not thinking about him, the next I was falling hard for him, fast.

Its torture being in his class this year. I'm pretty sure he knows how I feel about him. Which is not a good thing. Its hard for me to fall for a guy because I've been hurt so many times in the past. I'm guarded. Him and I are not close. But to be honest, I think that ever since he found out I had a crush on him, he started having a crush on me. No I'm not saying that exactly correct but just the way he acts towards me to think that.

Ever since the school year began, he's been acting weird around me. In class he'll stare at me, smile, when he see's me in the hallway he looks at me with the slightest smile on his face. He stands behind me constantly in class. When a student asks a question about a paper we're working on he'll come over to my desk lean completely over me, get really close, so close that I can feel the heat of his breathe hitting my neck.

This week, has been so weird. I'm going to sound so weird, and crazy when I say this but, have you ever got that strong feeling in the pit of you're gut that something's going to happen?? Well on Monday, right as I got on the bus I saw his car. He was driving behind our bus. My stomach dropped. That's when I got that feeling. Its was like I wanted to see him, but at the same time I didn't. I've known him for a year and a half now. I'm way past the heart beating out of your chest, getting so nervous you feel like you're going to get sick crap. I don't get nervous around him, nor does my heart pound out of my chest. But Monday, right as we pulled up to the school the feeling in my stomach grew stronger. I was getting really nervous, and my heart was beating so hard. Right when I walked through the front doors he was the first person I saw and he was staring back at me with this serious look on his face. I just walked right out of the building, I felt so weird. I ended up ditching his class. I know I sound like a complete weirdo lol. Then on Wednesday we had a fire drill during 4th period. I was walking outside with my friend, Hannah. We were talking about our music we were practicing in band. We walked towards the buses, that feeling in my stomach came over me again. I was like really what the heck?! I turned around and I saw Mr. So and So staring right at me. He had a serious look on his face, his face was really red. He saw me look at him then he looked down at his shoes and ran his fingers through his hair.

Today in class I didn't even look at him. I just couldn't. That feeling was back and I just wanted to get up and walk out, but I couldn't. As I was writing down what he was explaining I looked up at him (my mistake), he was staring at me then smiled. You know when you and guy really like each other and when you see them and they give you one of those special smiles? That's what he did. I looked right into his eyes and smiled back. We held eye contact for a least a min smiling at each other. The rest of the student's were too busy writing stuff down to notice. It felt amazing. That feeling was still there when we smiled at each other.

There is a billion other reasons why I think he likes me but what do you think? Does he or am I just reading into it too much?

I'm really sorry if this makes no sense at all, but I tried my best. Haha. (: Any help? Thank you so much.

View related questions: crush, period

<-- Rate this Question

Reply to this Question


Share

Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question!

A reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2013):

He likes you, but can't do anything because of your age..Im sure he thinks your cute though. Im sure he knows you like him and I think he likes it that you have a crush on him.

<-- Rate this answer

A reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2013):

He likes you, but can't do anything because of your age..Im sure he thinks your cute though. Im sure he knows you like him and I think he likes it that you have a crush on him.

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A female reader, sarah baghdad United States +, writes (23 November 2010):

OMG...this is exactly whats happening to me with my history teacher Mr.h he is so nice to me espcially and we're close to each other and also I had him twice and Iam falling in love with him ... u should go and see my subject and see what were the answeres because it really helped me to feel better, im still in love with him and can't wait till i graduate to see if he loves me and waiting for me or not!

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2010):

It's a school girl crush, that's all. If you look at the other posts on here you'll see many like yours. I don't want to dismiss your feelings but that's all it is, a crush. Like the other poster said, nothing can happen anyway and to be honest i don't see any signs that he feels the same. When we like people sometimes we see signs that just aren't there. It's time to realise that this is just a fantasy and that's all it will ever be.

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A male reader, Jmtmj Australia +, writes (19 November 2010):

Jmtmj agony auntDoes it really matter? Nothing can happen and hopefully you can see that. It's perfectly normal to have crushes on teachers... as long as they stay that way.

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

Add your answer to the question "I have crush and I think he likes me back. Help!"

Already have an account? Login first
Don't have an account? Register in under one minute and get your own agony aunt column - recommended!

All Content Copyright (C) DearCupid.ORG 2004-2008 - we actively monitor for copyright theft

0.0312536999990698!