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writes:I need help my husband is acting so different lately I have some clues he’s cheating he denies but also I feel so different about him I’m not sure if I love him I lost all my trust and I don’t know what to do now he tell’s me the he loves me so much but I fell so bud I don’t know what to do? Reply to this Question
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reader, airwaterearthfirebender  +, writes (10 February 2011):
 You haven't given enough to go on here.
What clues do you have? Be specific.
Do you feel bad for accusing him given the way he is acting because you are uncertain if he is really cheating on you?
If he really is cheating on you then 95% of the time I'd probably say to walk. If you have kids in the picture I would probably try hard to reconcile things, but again, that would depend on what your relationship is like outside of the cheating to begin with.
Perhaps if you provide more details you will garner more responses.
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reader, janniepeg +, writes (9 February 2011):
 Tell him you understand it's hard to live a double life and that you really miss your intimate time together. As well appreciate the life you share together. Tell him if you don't feel like you get enough attention from him then you won't cheat, but you would open your heart to someone else should that gentleman comes to your life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2011): look up the truth about lying. Basically, if you suspect then you want proof. No proof and all you will get if you confront him is denials and (if he is cheating) lies. If you confront without proof and they are cheating then they will just hide it better. If you have the money a private investigator is best. Otherwise a GPS device on his car. Or do the standard sleuthing, email accounts or cell phone bills, txt messages etc. Getting proof will give you the answer you are seeking. If he is not cheating then you can really put effort in to your relationship with a clear conscience. Best of luck...
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reader, craig-1  +, writes (9 February 2011):
Can i ask you what kind of clues you have? that would help out a lot
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reader, ashley187 +, writes (9 February 2011):
 You can't lose all your trust until you can really prove that he cheated. Don't just think it and throw your relationship away. Make sure you are valid in your thoughts. If there isn't any trust left, there isn't a relationship.
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