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age
36-40,
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writes:I don't know what to think I've been with men for as long as I have been having sex and I've always enjoyed sex but I've also always secretly liked to watch lesbian porn. If I watch hetro porn I get really turned on by the sight of the penetration but the actualy penis doesn't turn me on. When I watch a guy going down on a girl it really turns me on but I ignore the guys face and I don't think of a guy doing that to me I think of me doing this to a woman or her going down on me. I have been with my boyfriend for three years and I find it hard to get turned on by him. I have to think of all the lesbian porn I watch. Am I a lesbian?
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reader, girlabroad  +, writes (1 December 2008):
There's nothing wrong with watching girl/girl porn. The female body is just more attractive to look at than the male. Believe me, I thought maybe I was a lesbian once, and I was with a lesbian for a little while, but I ran back to men. It's one thing to fantasize about other women, and it's totally different to have a relationship with one.If you fantasize about holding hands with a girl in the park, going out to dinners, and movies romantically in public with another girl then maybe you should look into it, but porn is just a fantasy.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (1 December 2008):
It appears you are at least bi-curious. No one can tell you what is going on in your head. You may like men and women, or this could be a phase, or it could be a sign that you would be happier with women full stop.
But then you must have some feelings of attraction towards your boyfriend or you wouldn't go out with him.
Are you sure you don't just love him as a friend?
Lots of couples find their feeling fade after 3 years.
If so then you might want to tell him this before he starts talking about marriage.
Good Luck!! xx
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