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writes:I am married for almost 6 months now, and haven't had sex with my husband yet. He has been very tolerant and patient about this subject as he don't want to hurt me. However i can't see him go through all this. i feel like having sex with him, but when the time comes for him to insert - i am dead scared. at times i even shiver and cry for him not to do it. i have been delaying it too long i know that for a fact, therefore he finally bought a capsule from the pharmacy which is OLFEN -100 SR, the pharmacist has mentioned that it will numb my vagina, in which i wont feel anything while him doing it. yet i am scared for it. nowadays i am losing the interest of doing it too...Can you please help me i am very in need of keeping my husband happy. If you could suggest anything it would be very obliged. Thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2007): I endorse the advice kylie gave you. A couple of glasses of wine will help.
Also, you might consider getting on top and playing with your husband so you can have control. You don't have to go all the way the first times, and there is more than one way to have fun.
I hope you get over this and have the fun you two deserve!
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reader, DV1  +, writes (2 June 2007):
 There comes a point in our lives where we are consumed with great fear. At that crossroads, we can make a choice to overcome it, or we can let it consume us. If you love your husband, and aren't scared of him, you have nothing to worry about. He'll listen to you if you communicate with him when you're making love. The only thing that will help is you waking up and refusing to be afraid anymore. It sounds like you're not ready to trust him with your body. He married you, and I think that it's time for you to trust in him.
DV1
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