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36-40,
*giard3
writes:I have trouble letting go. I have become close friends with a girl in my class even though she is dating someone, but they are dating long distance for the first time and they haven't seen each other in 3 months (he doesnt treat how she should be treated, she even tells me that). It seems I am filling the void by doing things with her as he would if he was there and subsequently I treat her more than a friend which makes me start to have feelings for her, which only hurts me. But it also kills me how she looks at me but I think its because she needs that male attention that she isnt getting. Im having trouble stopping thinking about her while I know she is with someone. Any advice to get my head straight?
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reader, petina1  +, writes (15 December 2008):
 I'm sure the longer you see her you are filling a void in. I wouldnt give up as LDR tend not to last if there is someone else in the picture, which is y ou.
You will make it harder for her to resume the relationship with the other boyfriend because she will always be lonely when he's not there and she will appreciate you being there. She is used to him not being there, but could she get used to you not being there now? good luck. hope this helps.
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