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writes: I'm stuck. I work with a girl at work and we have become quite close friends and recently went out to a concert, just the two of us. We danced, hands held and a bit of close dancing and hugging on the dance floor, all in the name of enjoying the evening out.I have a girlfriend of 2yrs, and the girl at work knows this but got into a strop when we left the venue and I called my girlfriend. She accused me of giving off the wrong vibe and basically leading her on and playing with her head.How do I approach her as I do value our friendship, and never realised I was doing anything wrong, and want us to remain friends? Do I tell my girlfriend what happened, as she doesn't know. I need help...
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reader, anastasia +, writes (24 June 2006):
What you have done is quite wrong, to both women. What you were doing is basically a form of cheating, even though you havent slept with your 'friend'(I assume) you held hands and cuddled her, this crossed over the line of friendship. This behaviour is unfair to both women and you shouldn't be excusing it. Be a man and be honest with both girls and take what happens next on the chin as your behaviour may lose both of them
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reader, ariel  + ♥, writes (24 June 2006):
 Oops I just read that you did not tell your girlfriend.I can't tell you to tell your girlfriend, thats up to you.If you tell her her reaction will possibly be worse than that of your friend.
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reader, ariel + ♥, writes (24 June 2006):
Oooooh!!! you want two slices of cake!!!!!!!!!!!,you greedy boy!!!You certainly do need help.How would you like it if your girlfriend went out with a male friend and danced closely ,held hands and hugged on the dance floor, all in the name of enjoying the evening out.Did your girlfriend know you were doing this? Do you have an open relationship?..........................No wonder your friend is upset.
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