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writes: hi wondered if u could help me it sounds really stupid but i think ive got a phobia of dating and i want it to stop i havent been out with anyone for 2 yrs i get asked out on dates most weekends but when it comes to the day i cant do it im 21 so its not as if im not experienced with men ive had a long lasting relationship before which lasted 4 yrs but now i cant and i saw a man i was supposed to go out with with another women he said he still really liked me but i blew hot n cold i want to stop it because i was never like it before i dont no if its because ive become a bit more insecure but i really want to snap out of it hope u can help thanks x x
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2006): I just have to add, that this phobia i have is completely erroneous i have no clue why i have it, i have a date next weekend with a girl from the internet, i met her on myspace, i blew her off this weekend, but i have a date with her next weekend, im only 16 and i dont know whats wrong with me.
Sometimes i cry myself to sleep because i've become a big loser and im afraid to be in a room with alot of people i'll shake and feel like im going to faint, do i have a mental problem?
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (8 August 2006):
 I certainly think you would hugely benefit by seeing a counselor. He/she will be able to get to the root of your problem and help you to get beyond it. You may have poor self-esteem, or fear of rejection stemming from your previous relationship, or it could be something else entirely. Sometimes the symptoms of a problem are totally different than one would expect. Try to find a good therapist and see what they can do for you. Good luck!
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