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writes: hi, I am with a boy who i love to bits,he is really nice to me and i have been with him for a while now, we are having a great time but things do get a little bumpy some times of course. But, about a year ago i went out with a lad, we went out for about 3 months wich is better than nothin i suppose, we had our ups and downs, but i decided to break it of because he was going away for music and to record some things away in florida, so we decided because he wasnt there for me that we would finish it, so we didhe has now just come back from florida and is stayin in our home town. I have realised how much i really like him, he has said some really sweet things to me and he wants to get back with me.i am not saying i want to get back with him its just my mind is a little messed up, i love my boyfriend more than anythin i just dont know what to do!!!please help thankyou*dreamer* xxx Reply to this Question
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reader, Ryder  +, writes (10 May 2006):
 Hello dreamer,
I have been in this situation before except i was the girl coming back to the girl i loved so much... And she turned me down and i can tell you that my life since that has been a living hell not to mention my friends tell me shes very miserable and lonely ever since she turned me down.
If you truly love him and he was always the one.. then tell your current boyrfriend hes not the one.... That you have always had feelings for someone else or something his response may be negative but tell him he did nothing wrong and that he has treated you very well but you have feelings for someone else.
You have to ask yourself this: "Do you love your current boyfriend more or the other guy?" Because then again having a relationship with someone you dont like is pretty hard and you will have to make sacrifices.
Truly i think you should get back with the guy you loved a year ago because im sure hes the one.
Good luck and tell me how it goes.
Best regards, Ryder.
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reader, matron +, writes (10 May 2006):
 Hi Dreamer, try to remember why you broke up, it had to be more than him just going away otherwise you would have stayed together and worked something out, visiting each other etc until either you joined him or he returned home. All you remember are the good times and the way he made you feel back then, you can never go back to how it was. You are in a really good relationship from what you have said, why risk spoiling what you have. Remain freinds and accept the flattery but dont read too much into it, he obviously doesn't think much of your present b/f or he wouldn't flirt with you and risk being found out.If you love your b/f as much as you say you do dont even consider messin about, cos at the end of the day you'll end up alone, with alot of regrets and very sad. Be happy.
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