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I have a boyfriend, how do I get this other guy off my mind?

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Question - (5 October 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 8 October 2007)
A female South Africa age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hey everyone. i am so confused lately. i have a bf but i started liking some other guy. i really want to forget the other guy. i want to work on my relationship with my bf. but that guys makes it hard for me. i see him everyday at school. and my bf is about 1600km away from me. how do i get that guy out off my head. i really have to forget him. he makes me so unhappy. feels as if im cheating. i need help forgetting him plz. i really have to.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2007):

Think about all the great things about your boyfriend. All the things you've done together, all the things you love about him. All the little things that he does that makes you smile. How can this other guy even compete with that? You have much better guy already caring for you and thinking about you everyday. Think these things when this "other guy" comes into your mind. And to help with it, if you know you are going to see this other guy in passing, take a different route. If he is the same class as you, sit somewhere where you won't be able to see him if you can. If he is someone you talk to often, make it less and talk about your boyfriend when you do! This guy will be out of your mind in no time and you'll feel much better.

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A male reader, Tommy7 United States +, writes (6 October 2007):

You are immature. You need to know that you must control yourself. Just because some other interesting guy comes along doesn't mean you have to act on it. Would you expect less from yor bf?

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