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*myjean
writes:i've had a bf for 3 yrs he's sweet and adores me. earlier this year i met an old school friend, that night we went out and later came back to mine. her names emma and we slept together that night. we then met regularly and got very passionate.i didn't think we were lesbians but we love each other a lot.i don't know why but i cant do without her, i told the bf expecting him to flip but he said it wouldnt last and that he wanted me even more. i still go out with him a bit and have sex which is great but emma wants me to be only with her. i just don't know what to do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2007): it is a totally natural desire for ur gf to want u to herself and i think she is being very nice still being with u when uve been playing away like this. i think u should end it with your bf and i think you will be much happier
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reader, Amyjean +, writes (18 June 2007):
Amyjean is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi IndiaYour reply has put a new light on things.I now am certain that I want to be with my Emma for always. It's been difficult coming to terms with my new(very new)sexuality I could not believe I would love a girl so much but I'm very happy.ThanksooxxAmy
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (18 June 2007):
 "God didn't make Adam and Steve", I hate this phrase. Sorry, Anon, but I'm a spiritual woman who doesn't think that God cares who we love as long as we love.
But otherwise, Anon gav eyou great advice. You should look into your heart and decide for yourself who you really care about. You said yourself that you really like Emma, and that you don't really love your boyfriend. You said that he can give you children, but don't use that as a reason to stay with him. If you and Emma want a fulfilling relationship together, you can always have children. Adoption or sperm donors (or even your boyfriend) can provide you with pregancy and you can raise your child with a woman.
I know many lesbian couples who have a happy, hearty family with children of their own.
Anyhow, I'm glad that you seem to have made a decision. Emma sounds like a great girl, and I think you should give her a try.
xxIndia
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reader, Amyjean +, writes (18 June 2007):
Amyjean is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyour comments help lots.It feels unnatural for me to be in love with another girl but I am and i like it. the bf will be hurt but its emma for me . Amy
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2007): mmm well i tink u shuld goo sleep with ur girl friend aga...if it wos better with her than ur boyfriend...was it great? gooo get herr girlll .....
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2007): you have to think about who is more important to you and your life.who makes you happier and also think about the future things can always change nothing stays the same.i think you should go for the man God did not make adam and steave
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reader, Amyjean +, writes (18 June 2007):
Amyjean is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks Anon its not going to be easy. Emma makes me laugh and i think i'm in love with her.the bf is cute and kind and can give me babies but i don't love him. Amy
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2007): i think what you should do is sit down and think how is the person you wont to be with who makes you laugh how makes you happy the most overal who do you want to spend the rest of your life with?
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