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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi, I recently got asked out by a guy who I really like, it was all well and good until he started texting me asking how far I'd been, and if I was a virgin or not.I know its a perfectly normal question to ask, but he seemed too keen to know and almost disappointed when I was reluctant to tell him.Does this mean he's using me and is trying to find out to see how "up for it" I'd be? Or is this a perfectly normal question for guys of my age to ask their girlfriends?Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 September 2007): No it is not normal unless you guys are friends and are on the same page about asking. But you are not! He hasn't even reached that level of confidence with you and he is already asking personal questions. He is being disrespectful.
He is being rude and yes you are right. He is just trying to find out if you would have sex with him.
You got to stick up for yourself cause he has no respect for you (this is not your fault though. He is just a jerk). But next time he asks tell him it's none of his business and hang up on him. Don't talk to this kid anymore.
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