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I got a sexual text from another guy..my b/f see it..now I'm wondering if he loves me?

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Question - (30 January 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 30 January 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I have a boyfriend,an incident happens between us the other day.actually their is this other guy texing my phone saying he wants to get in a relationship with me.one day my boyfriend grab my phone went in my phone and saw a a tex the guy send me stating 'can you handle my dick'.he was so mad.

i said to im we are not involve but he wants to be in a relationship,so he was there talking we wewre aguin and stuff then i started crying saying that i aws sorry about the tex.then he forgive me all of a sudden he started saying it look like am playing games which i wasnt the only thin i did wrong was to make that guy sen me those tex messages.he said the relationship was over so i was crying to him saying lets work this out and stuff.and he said he doesnt know so we stop texing and calling each other for couple days.

i said to myself i wasnt goin to call r tex im bcuz its not like i was cheating on im.all of a sudden he start texing me so i start texing bk i was happy bcuz i love im very much.i ask im if he loves me and he said yes.then while i was texing im i ask im what r we i ask him if we are friends or we are fixing the situation he said we fixing it.i want to know if he really love me or what r if he wants to be with me.

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (30 January 2009):

You just have to let him forgive you and keep working your way back to fixing it.

In the future if a boy makes some kind of comment about liking you or texts you something like that then you should tell your boyfriend and then text this guy back to tell him to go away and leave you alone.

Good Luck!! xx

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A male reader, cdjudd United States +, writes (30 January 2009):

I have been in your shoes before. The best thing to do is let your boyfriend figure this out. Don't put a lot of pressure on him, as this can affect his decision. In the mean time, I would tell this guy off or change your number. I wouldn't be too accepting of this either. Just tell him it wont happen again and make sure of it. I hope things work out for you. Best of luck.

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