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writes: I am a teenage boy who goes to an all boys grammar school. But I have now developed feelings for one of my teachers, who is also male. I can't stop thinking about him, everytime I see him my insides melt and there is nothing else I can think about whilst he is there, I even dream about him etc. I need help, what do I do? I would give anything in the world for something to happen between us, but I know it is unlikely. Please help.
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (6 December 2006):
 Hi there,
I have to disagree with "Laura", it sounds like you find yourself attracted to guys - which is perfectly normal and alright. However, you're not questioning your sexuality, you're questioning your feelings for your teacher.
You need to realize that nothing can happen between you and this teacher - it would be crossing teacher-student boundaries and it could potentially get this man fired. It's normal to get crushes on teachers, but you do need to accept that it's probably not going to happen. If it does happen, the consequences will be much more difficult than you expected. He could lose his job, and he could also lose respect for himself after crossing the line as an authority figure.
It's okay to look, but it's not okay to touch. It's also not okay to obsess. It sounds like you're well on your way to total infatuation, and that will hold you back socially. You need to find someone your own age to lust after and pursue.
Good luck, sweetness.
xxIndia
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reader, laura_18 +, writes (6 December 2006):
 Hey there. It might just be a crush wait until you go on boys nights out and find a lovley lady. just try to forget about it as i said its just a crush
take care babe and good luck x
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