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writes: This is hard to explain so bare with me…I’m 18 and have been single for 2 years.My last realationship was pretty hard to get over , I have trouble trusting guys and I’m very scared to make the 1st move.I’ve had crashes, kissed people and had sex (I’ve not slept around though) in those two years. But a relationship has never materialised with any of those guys.But recently (around two months ago) a friend introduced me to this really lovely guy he’s 24.(I’ve been in relationships with older guys before)We spoke on msn a few times after that and he told me how much he liked me.One night I got drunk and bumped into him and he invited me back to his flat…we ended up having (gr8) sex.He spoke to me as usual after that and I even stayed over at his again last week (we did not have sex)But I cant shake the feeling that he only wants me for sex.I’d really like a relationship with him but I’m scared he’ll think I’m to young.I just want him to know though that if he’s not willing to gave me a proper relationship I’m not going to stick around and be his fuck buddy.He is the 1st person I’ve like this much in years and don’t wana see a good thing go to wasted.What will I do??
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reader, Hot (Advice) +, writes (27 July 2006):
 Well if you hurried into his bed when you were drunk it is no wonder he may just want you for sex only. You haven't given him any reason to respect you, you are like all the rest of them in his eyes. You are nothing special to him because you didn't give the relationship a chance to grow and trust to be built between you. It's too late to stop on the sex front now, he obviously is just out for a bit of fun between the sheets and you have given him that.
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