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I gave her everything she needed yet she still cheated on me! It makes me think I never want to fall in love again

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Question - (19 January 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 21 January 2010)
A male United States age 30-35, *immothy16 writes:

i have been with this girl about a year now, and i treated her so good, just like a queen, always was there for her and she even told me that i was the only one that she could ever tell embarrassing things to and be so comfortable with it. but jus a couple of mouths later, she starts cheating on me and lying to me and takin advantage of my feelings for her and she keeps denying it. and just last nite, i did what i never thought i could do, i actually broke up with her, cause i just couldnt take anymore of all da pain and suffering, i have had my heart broken like this twice before, and i just dont want to go through the pain again. i love her so much. i wouldnt wish this feeling on my worst enemy. i hurts so bad that the girl i had dreams of marrying one day would actually do this to me. it kind makes not want to ever fall in love again. what should i do? and i treated her so very well, gave her everything she needed and this is what i get.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2010):

Hey, sounds like she doesn't love you like you do. You can't force anybody to be with you. Please try to forget her, she is not a good girl for you. Cheating will always happen again. Sign up for different activities, like sports or maybe go to the book store and read, exercise, anything just to keep you busy and not thinking about that. Eventually you will meet a good girl that will make you forget about this one.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2010):

hi

we are in the same situation, i do everything to please him, still he plays with my feelings badly. Unfortunately i haven't been able to walk away from cause of several different reason, though i tried many time. If you have evntually walk away then i think its a brilliant thing you have done. Good luck for the future. I hope you find the right person cause you sound like a nice guy.

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