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writes:Hiya, i found pictures of my boyfriend and his ex gf on his phone and messages from her. he has a son to her so i understand they need contact with eachother. he says nothing has happened between them but i dont know what to believe, can you help me??
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reader, lalybug2008  +, writes (19 June 2008):
 the choice to believe him resides in you and the strength of your relationship with him. How long have you been together? How long was he with her? How much time was it after those two broke up and you two got together? What was the reason for the break up? Has he lied to you before... about ANYTHING??? These are all questions to ask yourself. If it were me, I'd most definitely be suspicious. From personal experience, whenever my boyfriend has been in contact with his ex whom he also has a son with, it was only a matter of time before they got back together. But not every man is like my boyfriend. If it's just not feeling right to you and your gut is telling you something, listen to it. You are so young and have your whole life ahead of you. Don't blow it on this crap, getting involved with and staying involved with a liar will only hurt YOU in the end. I should take my own advice.. lol.. Easier said than done and better being on the outside looking in too. Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2008): hey i know how that feels. i found tons of pics of my bf with his ex, who still calls and texts him. but you should probably trust him. i mean why else would he have a reason to lie to you..?
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reader, mylonleyself +, writes (18 June 2008):
 I would be very angry if my boyfriend had pictures of him and his ex on his cellphone. I would be ok if he had pictures of his child, but not his ex. Maybe you should talk to him and ask him why is it that he has pictures of his ex. Tell him that you don't appreciate that and it makes you feel sad that he still holds her dear(he is keeping pictures of her)
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