A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I found my soul mate, but he is leaving my program for good. I won't see him anymore. I was thinking of telling him, but I'm afraid it will change things. Oh by the way, I'm 26 years old and he is 20 years old. Tomorrow will be the last time I will see him. Should I just leave it as it is don't say anything about it and if he is my soul mate he will come back to me that sort of thing. I've always wanted to be with someone who is exactly like me and he is. I really don't know what to do. I need some advice.
View related questions:
soulmate Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, Original shiraz!  +, writes (5 April 2009):
How will it change things if hes leaving? Sure its risky but its not like your playing games, your obviously serious. Be honest with him and yourself that way you live with no regrets and you will never have to question the what ifs. Dont be to full on but dont mess around lightly dropping hints. Subtle yet obvious if you get me. Think of it as the last shot, you only get one and yours is already coming to the end dont let it fade, be honest and genuine and wait for his response. (Go for it!) Good luck
A
female
reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (5 April 2009):
Well I wouldn't go up to him and tell him that you are his soulmate and want to get married and have children RIGHT NOW!!!
That's a bit scary.
I think you should just go up and say you'd really like to keep seeing him and give him your number or even arrange something then and there.
Even if he takes it to mean that you just want to continue being friends, you can always build it up from there when you turn up and wow him with your charm and good looks.
Good Luck!! xx
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2009): If you don't say anything, you may regret it for a long time. Face the fear of rejection, and take a risk. Or just give him contact information and tell him you would like to keep in touch.
I have a strong feeling from the way you described the situation that you might be in rehab. If so be very careful of rehab romances....if I am wrong about your circustances, then go for it!
...............................
|
