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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi, I have a bit of a problem. My girlfriend and I have been together for quite some time, and we have always had really good sex up until about 2 months ago. Lately I have been finishing way too fast and we usually don't even have time to switch up positions. this is fairly recent, so I know it is something that can be fixed, I am just not sure how. Surprisingly, she says she doesn't mind, but to be honest, it's bothering the hell out of me because we used to have sex for anywhere from 15 min-1 hour, and now all of a sudden it's a completely opposite story. Any advice at all? Reply to this Question
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reader, HotANDcold +, writes (29 October 2008):
 I been there and its okay dude, it happens. Some times stress makes you weak and as a result it affects you’re sexual life, in my case it did happen that way. Sex with my girlfriend wouldn’t last for more than 10 to 20 minutes the maximum and I was really depressed because of that even thought she said it was okay I knew it wasn’t okay because I could tell she wasn’t satisfied which is not a good thing.
This is what I did, I didn’t see her for 3 days either watch porn. I went to sleep earlier and workout more than I use to and avoid fights with her or my siblings. Honestly in my case it did work really well. Now we have a good sexual life, we would have sex for 30 to 45 minutes.
But in the other hand the only thing my friend did was jerking off right before having sex with his gf the following day.
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