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I find it hard forming friendships, I struggle to bond emotionally, can anyone help me?

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Question - (19 November 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 8 February 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, *rances.round writes:

I don't know where to start, I guess I just feel like I need some answer's and maybe someone out there can help. I have been through alot in my 25 years, I certainly know that the 31 times I have moved doesn't help, I have lost myself I do believe. I have a daughter and she is 2 years and the only good thing from my life, her father doesn't want to know her - his choice. I just feel emotionally "unclear" in how my life is. I started seeing an old family friend a couple of months back. He works away so was seeing him most weekends, all was going well - then i just wanted out. We hadn't slept together and when we did go to bed it just didn't happen. I think I was just seeing him more of a best friend and nothing more, but then when I broke it off I thought I didn't want to do that. He came back from work and we got back together then I freaked out again, and told him I just had to go(home). He begged me to let him come but I just couldn't and I think I have broke his heart. I care about him but I don't show my emotion. I feel blank over how I treated him and he isn't the only person I have done this too. I guess I just run away from everything and never deal with the issues I have. It's what I am writing on here for I need some direction, advice, guidance - anything someone can offer, I have many other issues and know I need help - please help me x fran

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (8 February 2008):

Laura1318 agony auntYou need to focus your attention on what you want in this life or your aims in life. Some people focus on God and others on their ambitions. You walk towards that destination and if you meet any problems , they are just a distractions . Tackle each issue or problem one at a time. Do not be overwhelmed by the many problems in life.

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