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*revor7979
writes:I cheated on my girlfriend 7 months ago and we have now been dating for 8 months. I told her that i cheated on her but didnt tell her everything. A few days later i felt guilty again and told her everything. Now i cannot stop telling her everything bad that comes to my mind or that i have done in the past. I can't stop telling her things that happened before we were even dating and i feel like i have to tell her every detail. New things to tell her keep coming up everyday and it is tearing us apart. Can somebody please help me of what to do?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (3 July 2012):
 You have held this guilt inside off you for so long that now you have finally been able to be honest you just can't seem to let it go and you are finding more and more negative things to keep telling her. You need to put it to rest now, maybe you felt you didn't deserve her forgiveness therefore you keep throwing negatives at her. It seems you have told her the truth and now the both of you can work through things. You need to learn to start thinking positive again. Believe that this relationship will work, yes you made a mistake and you have finally been honest about it, it is now time to leave it in the past, be positive and continue with the relationship. Put your energy in to doing something to make it up to your girlfriend, maybe organise a weekend away or a romantic night in and make it all about her, shower her with attention and show her you love her.
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