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We had sex then he deleted me from Facebook

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Question - (3 July 2012) 5 Answers - (Newest, 8 July 2012)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *nlovee:( writes:

This guy I met last weekend, he's 25, 26 next month and I'm 18. We were getting on well. The next night I went to his but the thing is I was really shy and just blamed it on being tired. Anyways, we had sex. I know I shouldn't of but it just happened. Even the next day I was quiet.

Since then he hasn't text me or anything and deleted me off facebook. I feel proper used and embarrassed. Should I say something to him or just leave it?

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (8 July 2012):

So_Very_Confused agony auntsaying something just makes it worse.

use this as a learning tool....

he got what he wanted and he's done...

move on and chalk it up to experience....

put it on the bucket list... meaningless sex with a stranger...

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A male reader, Tom Obler  United Kingdom +, writes (3 July 2012):

Tom Obler  agony auntI'd say based on his actions he has used you and has now gone. I wouldn't try contacting him. The fact that he deleted you and has not contacted you says he has finished. Chalk this up to experience I'm afraid.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2012):

I know the feelings you're having and it's horrible. I don't think you should contact him. I don't think he'd reply, and that would only make you feel worse. All you can do is try to learn from this and not rush into anything next time. Try not to take it too personally - remember that he doesn't know you and this may just what he does i.e. have one night stands.

Take care and hope you feel better soon.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2012):

It's only been a couple of days OP, just wait and see what happens.

But be prepared for him to just ditch you because that we do with girls who give it up so easily and so soon.

Next time if you don't want to feel like crap and want to be taken seriously then you're best off not going somewhere alone with a guy where he make moves on you. That way even if you're tired you won't get caught in the moment.

Just take is a lesson learned, you're just another notch on his bed post, if you don't like being that to guys then just make sure you do things the smart way.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (3 July 2012):

I am sorry, but saying something to him would be like trying to make a career thief feel sorry for stealing.

I'm afraid that from the moment you met, he wanted just one thing and once he'd got it, that was it.

I wouldn't say anything, because there's nothing you can do. Leave him well alone, hold your head up high and go find someone better.

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