A
male
age
36-40,
*incey
writes:Does it mean it's an end to my story or should i ask for friendship.I'm 25, alright looking guy. i fell in love with this customer(who's a female cop). Lately, she came to me and she was getting transferred to some island for 2 years. This news got me totally upset and i had to express my feeling before she moves away. She's my customer and we met hardly once a week, both had the comfort to share problems, speak, smile. i thought she liked me. One day she invited me to her send off party. So i got this mixed signals. I thought it was mutual. She was so good to me in the party. Treated me like one of her best mate. I gifted her a necklace set and greeting card( which did express my feelings). She didn't open it in the party. When it was my turn to go home, she typed her phone number and promised to call me.i waited for 2 days realised that, she has started to ignore my message and calls. I was so confused. It was 100% ignorance. I felt bad every time, when i sent a message and never got reply. after 4 days, she replied saying that "she saw me as a friend and i took it in wrong way. Gift and greeting were unnecessary. Calls and messages were more annoying. she sad am kind person, and keep a girl happy one day, but stop contacting her as its worrying her"She was rude and i guess she never ever gave a second thought to understand what i felt, neither replied nor returned my gift. I felt really heart broken. This rejection was ruthless. It hurts me every time. She's living to this place for 2 years and i wouldn't be seeing her for ever. What should i do? should i seek for a friendship to cure myself or just try to dump my feelings? Please need some suggestion from experiences men and women. Ps: she's a cop but still nice person. i have to think several times when i send her a text, so that i Dont break any law and put myself into trouble.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2011): Forget her mate! She is a lost cause. There are plenty more fish in the sea believe me.
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