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I feel people are killing me with their judgment, advice please!

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Question - (22 December 2011) 4 Answers - (Newest, 25 December 2011)
A female age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I'm really frustrated, how come people do believe in the power of prayer, or manifesting things from the universe, or many other miracles, any supernatural events, but they refuse 100%, of the possibility of curse? If there are blessings , there are also curses. And there is light and there is darkness. I feel people are killing me with their judgment , when I try to tell, that my life is under a curse, or attack, they think I'm crazy. But they always talk about their prayers, what got things for them for free, or how their positive visualization , got rid of their cancer. But why can't they see, that there are good people , who are suffering of massive personal attack on their life, just as much , if it would be full of miracles, it could be the opposite. It reduces my social life, because , I automatically qualify, as a negative person, who just didn't do enough, to make this life better. Yet, I do many things to improve my life, but as most people knows there is bad luck, and many things in life, are out of our control. Why people are obsessed with their own supernatural believes, and can't see others with respect?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2011):

I'm not normally the type for this sort of stuff but I read something once that talked about how we end up in certain situations and basically it was saying that its our own choices that lead us to the places we end up and the situations we place ourselves in that detrmine what happens to us.

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A female reader, in experienced Iceland +, writes (23 December 2011):

Hey there....I personally agree with you....everything has a counter affect...and if therez light there is darkness. In life we have to take the good with the bad, jus like that there is good and evil, and people should not disrespect what others believe u are right. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion so they shouldn't jump on your head

Don't give in to them, just hold your beliefs high

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2011):

It shouldn't be a surprise how people don't like to be surrounded with negativity. Prayers and blessings are positive so not offensive. Curses and bad luck aresomething that brings others down.

Maybe you can put your negative beliefs to good use socially by doing charity work to help others who are afflicted by bad luck.

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A female reader, Starlights United Kingdom +, writes (23 December 2011):

Starlights agony auntIf you feel people are judging you its based on their own limiting beliefs.

I would ignore their harsh words if they make you feel bad.

Your entitled to respect as are they.

There are good people who suffer on this planet, but this is part and parcel of living in this earthly world.

They "suffer" because they choose too "suffer" in order to learn important life lessons so that they grow wiser.

The troubles they go through is decided prior to being born on Earth (that ties in with the whole spiritual aspect of life).

It can get complex here, BUT it is worthwhile to focus on the good/positives about life because it does get people through the hard times remembering there is a silver lining on every cloud.

There is nothing wrong in your point of view "they" simply view you as negative because you see that life is not always "wonderful" and that it can be difficult too.

Your a realist and it can be dark sometimes.

The only thing WE ALL have control over is our attitude or our state of mind (despite what good or bad may be happening around us).

If you feel your being attacked by negativity then do what can to protect yourself (whether you believe in a religion or higher power call upon that) the force of Love within you always dissolves negativity. So focus on Love.

Also don't take what people say too personally because that's based on their own belief system and is true for them. It does not necessarily mean it has to be true for you also.

I hope this helps!

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