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writes:My friend recently went away for ten days holiday and hasn't been in touch with me on her break. During that time, my Mum and her boyfriend have been asking me several times when she'd be back, and whether she's made contact with me. The answers to both of them were negative and the more they asked the worse I felt cos it suggested that our friendship may not be as good as it looks, as I didn't know anything! I've expressed my annoyance with this when she got back, which I sort of feel better about, but on the other hand I am treating her differently from before. However on top of all this, my Mum's boyfriend is totally 'angry' with me and hasn't met my eye etc since this all happened and I am beginning to 'reject' him even more than before. I know this isn't right as he's Mum's bf but it's my initial reaction as I don't like the treatment. Sooo, is he right to be mad about me hanging out with this friend? Does my friend suggest that she doesn't value me enough as a mate to be in touch whilst she's away? Should I treat her differently from now onwards?Please help. Thanks. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2009): i dont think you should treat her differently, mayb she just needed time on her own, but defenatly talk to her about how you feel and how she feels you never know she mite serprise u,
as for your mum and her bf they should'nt really b inna your buisness like that, mayb u could have handled the situation better, but you need to let them no to step back, and if you need there advice you will go to them. good luck, believe me everything will work out, it always does.
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reader, Sweety Pie +, writes (17 June 2009):
 Id talk to her about it, there could be a perfectly good reason, if she was abroad, many phones dont work out there.
Just mention how you were a little confused.
Now I dont understand how your mums boyfriend links with your friend? Unless they are really close or something, which is a little wierd.
Care to elaborate on that one?
Good Luck xx
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