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I feel my friend is using me to get closer to him!

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Question - (27 March 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 28 March 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I have this realy close boy mate, and I made friends with this girl and I feel like she is using me to get closer to him and she keeps on excluding me when we all talk together and she is trying to take over my place as being realy close to him how do I get rid of her?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2007):

You are quite young to be worrying about this kind of stuff. Just go out and enjoy having fun and having a laugh. If she wants to be close to him, then let her. You don't want to get into a relationship at your age. Just be cool and let them be friends etc. You can all be friends, surely.

Take care and lighten up.

xx

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A female reader, Lady tinks United Kingdom +, writes (27 March 2007):

Lady tinks agony auntI don't think she means it. Ask her up front if she fancies him and if she does and it upsets you then ask yourself why your so bothered? do you fancy him? just tell her how you feel. That you feel she is pushing you away and would like to be included in the conversations you guys have. If she is nasty about it then you know what you have to do. all the best x x x

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