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writes: I go to a bank every two weeks to cash my check. There is a teller that works there different times. I have been to her window but this third time was different. I was standing in line getting ready to go toward her window when I noticed that she did the most sexual thing. She was wearing a bang in her hair she push it back softly before I came close and she looked me up and down. I felt as if she was flirting with me which really shocked me because I was really thinking about her the week before. when I got to the window she did not say a word and I did not either. I was to shocked. She was still making suggestive moves at me. When she was finished cashing my check she fold her hands together and asked me 'is there anything else I can do for you?' but to me the way she did this she was trying to tell me something so I said to her Not yet. I am not a member of this bank. I am very interested in her I would like to send her flowers. But I would like to ask you, is this all in my mind?
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reader, Bev Conolly  +, writes (9 June 2005):
 Yes, I think you imagined it. Nothing in your description suggests anything sexual to my (female) mind, only that she was being pleasant and friendly to a customer. She adjusted her hair, she folded her hands and she asked if there was any further business she could help you with.Nope. No sexual content that I can see.I'd hold off on the flowers (too much, too fast), although you might want to ask her for coffee and see what she says.
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reader, Your big sis +, writes (9 June 2005):
 Pushing a bang back into her hair is not sexual. I think you are reading all the wrong signals. But if you absolutely want to know, the next time you cash your check, ask her for a date. The worst she can do is say no. And since you're not a member of the bank, you can go to a different bank so you're not embarassed.
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