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writes:I don’t know exactly how to start this it’s a long story and the main problem that's just arisen not so long ago. The background information that you guys should have to help me out into what I am supposed to this is the following: I am in a long distance relationship with a girl that I have seen only 2 times for short periods of time. Right now we are both in college and we live very far away I need to catch a plane to go see her that’s how far away it is. Well now we on summer break and we both went our ways apart to different places in the world she went to Italy and I went back to my home country (I am an international student) We were doing ok she was affectionate to me and I was very affectionate towards her we talked a lot and we had “dates over skype”. Recently we got into a big argument and I was very upset and I hurt her feelings. We solved the problem but now she is really distant and emotionally detached from me. I am feeling horrible right now and I don’t know what to do we are not going to see each other for at least 3 more months. She is even saying it to me I feel distant and emotionally detached. I am feeling worse every day that goes by from the start of the argument I hurt her very bad emotionally. I don’t know what to do anymore I’ve tried telling her that I will go see her soon that I need her, that I love her. But she still says the same thing it’s been 3 days already and now I am feeling left out and alone. I am in my home country I haven’t been here forever and I don’t know many people. I feel left alone for real now I don’t have her which was making my day better each time I talked to her she made me feel cared for. Now I feel lonely and I need to solve this emotional problem that it’s eating my mind away. I feel like I am actually getting depressed but I know that I cant show sings of weakness right now since both of us need someone to take the lead to get back to where we left of. I just don’t know what to do anymore though I feel like she doesn’t want me anymore and she has even said that she feels like she does but she doesn’t “feel it”. I haven’t been able to sleep correctly because of this stuff and I feel like there is going to be a break up soon and I really love her and she loved me back too I don’t want to lose her because of that argument in which I acted like an asshole. I did say I was sorry and she forgave me. Her and I feel like nothing is the same. She wants to go back to what we before she wants it to be better, I know we don’t see each other often but I want to be with her. So I would like some advice of how to handle this situation I am feeling almost depressed and I feel like this is over but I don’t want to accept it.Thank you for your help guys.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2010): try it one more time my friend. go and meet her, try to talk with her. and after all these you will understand if its really over for both of you or if you still have any chance.
but don't lose the opportunity to talk with her face to face even if its for the last time,,,
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI talked to her and we solved things I put everything on the table. She really appreciated the fact that I was open about this. Thank you for your help.
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