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female
age
41-50,
*tefsjustwaiting
writes:It's been a month since he left. He comes by once or twice a week. And talks to me every other day if don't contact him first. He says he still loves me and doesn't want to disappear from my life. He insists on paying the electric bill even though I've told him not to. I'm trying to figure out what's goin on here. He is even buying the fuel pump for my truck and installing it. I know this sounds like I'm rambling. He stepped back because he became withdrawn having money problem. I feel like still in a relationship. Can someone please give me some inside here. Is he just needing space or is he afraid of this relationship. I'm confused
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (1 November 2010):
 Its hard to tell what this man wants i dont even think he knows himself what he wants, he is still supporting you but he doesnt want to be in a relationship, its obvious he still cares for you but you need to get things straight with him or else you may end up being badly hurt, sit down and ask him what he wants its unhealthy at the moment because you dont no were you stand, tell him that you cant wait forever for him so either you both get back together or else if you dont then you need to stop meeting up with him and contacting him so much you need space to get over him.
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