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writes:Hey guys i recently been having problems in my relationship with my girlfriend. we have been together for about 3 years now we have a 17 month old baby and shes fantastic. the best thing that ever happened to me. the issues i have been having with my girlfriend is... one she doesnt really trust me. she never really has and she told me about it and im thinking to myself if there is no trust there is no us... but i let that go for now. Then her and my mom dont get along, so basically my mom doesnt care for her or her mom they also had words so it really sucks but my mom is a control freak so thats another story for another time. i dont know what to do because my gf never wants to come over to my house and always gives me crap when i take the baby over to see my mom, calls me a mamas boy etc. but she doesnt understand that that is my parents and if i wanna take my kid over to see her grandparents thats perfectly fine. Another issue is i have sort of a gambling problem and i blew a lot of cash i shouldnt have these past few days and that pissed her off big time and i take full responsibility for that but shes not perfect either, no one is. I'm also having a ton of dreams of me being with my ex gf and meeting other girls. i dont know if thats a sign or what? its really weird. the thought of us not being together hurts especially for my kids sake because we've been through a lot of stuff and we made it this far but i just think nothings going to get better any time soon and im stuck in a rut here. please help me i need some great advice here. thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2010): My man and I have worse issues but She needs to trust you for it to work. You need to see about getting help with the gambling. Mom will have to respect the relationship as well. You two could work
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