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writes:hello.my story in short is:i love that guy and he loves me back, we are in a relationship and everything is just normal but sometimes i feel that am giving in more than he is. for ex: i call/ text him more than he does. Although he always say that he misses me and he loves the time we spent together however, i feel like am the one who always wants to hangout out with him when he doesnt care that much. i put him on the top of my list where he doesnt. i tried asking him about it he says forgive me huni but am a bit busy"i understand the he is busy with college and family and friends. but sometimes he needs to give me time more than his friends (and thats what I do). am not asking him to ditch studying for me all i want is him show me more care. how do i tell him this? how do i tell him that us (girls) we love our love to be a caring person?please people help meps. am sure he loves me like i do and we both are planning for our marriage after a couple of semesters left for us at college. so breaking up is not an option 2 any of us ..Merci all
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (18 November 2010):
 How do you tell him this?
You just do. Don't do it while crying, or in a way to make him feel bad. Just let him know what you're feeling.
Listen, if you're discussing marriage, you need to start with open communication. Tell eachother what you want and are feeling. Compromise. But it all comes back to communication. Fights happen when you let something like this go. The earlier it's addressed, the better. Don't let the problem grow. If you talk it out while it's still small generally it will never be a problem at all.
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reader, Melanie89  +, writes (18 November 2010):
I know how you feel, i went through a stage of that aswell. But if he didnt want to be with you and love you like he said he does then im sure he wouldnt be with you, just tell him whats on your mind and everything that you feel needs to be out in the open. x
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