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*ulu55
writes:I've been dating *Brandon for almost 2 years. He's quiet and sometimes open. We can tell each other everything but lately I haven't felt like i wanted to kiss him or be really affectionate. It doesn't seem like a big deal but he's always kissing me and ALWAYS on my back and I'm not sure what to do! I feel as though I can't be affectionate back because he doesn't allow me to since he's always showing me. I love him but at the same time it feels like we don't share a lot of likes as in music, I can dance and he can't, I like to be around a lot of people and he doesn't. He's quiet and I am loud. Is that ok? they say Opposites attract and i'm happy. We spend time together playing games, talking, or just hanging out. But at the same time I ask myself will this work? Should I see someone new to try it out? I'm stuck! and it's painful ='( please help me.
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reader, lulu55 +, writes (17 June 2010):
lulu55 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI'm not sure what to say to him =/ because i'm not sure what i feel.
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reader, lulu55 +, writes (17 June 2010):
lulu55 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwhat do you mean too much space? Do you mean that i should take a break? I'm not quite sure what to do . and also thank you for your answer it did help alot.
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reader, lsickle +, writes (16 June 2010):
You might not like what I have to say but here it goes. It seems like you are feeling crowded quite frankly. Everyone needs space but there is such a thing as too much space. You say your happy you love him he just needs to cool his jets i happen to know that a womens sexual and intimacy libido can have a rather large range which could explain your lack of affection. You say you tell each other everything so now is the time to dig deep down and if you are secure in your relationship maybe the answer is just tell him the truth and that you are willing to work out the problem. This could be the domino that makes the rest fall a feeling as important as this one if hid wont be the only one that ends up in the closet locked up and that can lead to resentment. Resentenment can lead down a road of despair i have personal exp. In this. If he is an understanding person and has a good head on his shoulders he should be able to handle it.
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