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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I feel really dirty and bad about myself at the thought of giving a guy head or even having sex. Is this normal and what can I do to stop feeling this way?... Reply to this Question
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (1 January 2009):
 I'm in total agreement with both "Bugs" and "ohdearitserika" below, you should do only what is right for you, and do not just try to be like others. I'll submit another way to put it - Even if and when you do fall in love with a wonderful man who fulfills your dreams, there may still be certain perimeters to the activities in which you are willing to engage, and that is perfectly okay. Most of us, regardless of generation, have lines across which we do not cross.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2008): Did you have a strict upbringing.Was your sexuality repressed?Is it due to your religious beliefs?
Sex is beautiful when you fall in love.By the time you fall in love(it takes a long time to reach that stage) you will definitely get to know whether the guy is a prince or frog.If you find he is a frog,you run in the opposite direction with your heels hitting your ass.If the guy turns out to be a prince,he will not pressure for you for sex.He understands your fears and insecurities.He makes you feel beautiful inside out.When you meet such a guy,you first hold his hands.hug him.Then slowly you move on to the next stages.Oh!yes! you will want to.
Remember the most important thing to remember is that most of the guys just like to play around with girls that are easy.Its a girl who values herself to be more than just a body for a man who meets the prince.
I wish you happiness.
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