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writes:I wanted to know, please. Just about every time I masturbate I think of my girlfriend, afterwards I feel bad that I would think of her in such a dirty way, is this normal? Reply to this Question |
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2008): I have the same doubt. i hav a gf whom (only whom) i'll marry in other few yrs. i do masturbate by thinking abt her. often i masturbate when we talk sexy things over the phone. i always seek her permission b4 i start masturbating when she is on phone. she loves it. but she doesnt want me to do this often coz she is not sure if this is bad/good.
Note: We live in diff states and meet only once in a yr. So we can share everything even sex only over the phone...
Thanks to everyone who clarified and a spl Thanks to the asker for asking this....
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2008): i did same thing here, i told my girlfriend and shes ok with it even though she just laugh. but then i still feels bad :[
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reader, spanna  +, writes (26 February 2008):
 whether you tell her or not dont feel bad about it, if u were thinking of a work mate or wathing porn then you can feel bad lol
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks everyone for your input! I would love to tell her but I'm afraid she would be weirded out
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2008): Dont you dare feel bad, i'd be soo happy knowing my boyfriend thought about me when he touched himself everytime, to me that is such a compliment and very respectfull! It's nice that she is enough for you, and maybe if you told her what you thought about i'm sure she'd love it! I mean, telling her you always thought about other women would be horrible, she's very lucky... :)It would boost my confidence if my bf said he thought about me everytime!
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reader, spanna +, writes (25 February 2008):
if my bf turned round n told me he thought of me while he maturbated i wud be relieved and quite happy. it shows u dont think of others in that way and that she is who u want, but obviously doesnt give you enough sex if u are masturbating. i dont think you have anything to worry about here to be honest
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2008): It is normal to fantasize about significant others when masturbating- incredibly normal actually... I think most people do it she probably thinks of you too, so don't feel bad, enjoy your fantasies!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2008): Honey, I can't tell you how over the moon she would be to know that you're thinking of her in a dirty way, and not some filthy porn star. So many girlfriends have an issue with their guy because they watch porn and think of porn stars when they masturbate, but you're thinking about her! It's totally natural, and I'm sure she'd be quite honoured to think of her over thinking about other women :] It's honestly not a problem, it's totally normal - but I'll tell you this, I just hope to God my boyfriend thinks about me when he masturbates, I'd much rather this than porn! :] Don't feel bad babe, it's all fine.
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