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writes:Have been single for 4 years, during which, only one man has caught my real interest. He teaches me, once a week, in evening classes.He does pay me attention, and occasionally flirts, but has never made a move, in or out of class. I have not made my interest obvious, as I want to continue with the classes, and would not be able to face them/him if I made a pass that failed.Should I make my feelings clear? If yes, how can I do it without losing face?
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reader, YellooFish +, writes (26 October 2007):
If you want his attention, grab his attention.
Wear clothes that grab it! Were low-cut tops with cleavage enhancers and short skirts or fashionable things. Also treat your self such as spa days and stuff if he sees you love youself and care for your self he will begin to notice you!
Also dont fail for him because at the end of year ask for his number or something with confidence!
Hope this helps,
Yelloofish
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2007): Just bring him an apple next time you go to class. That will catch his attention just because he will think you are so sweet. Then after class when he comes over to thank you, strike up a conversation with him. Don't be shy. Most professors are in that profession because of the ladies anyways. So go for it!
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reader, Richard_EMids +, writes (26 October 2007):
 Hi there. Sorry but I have to pick up on your first comment - only one man has caught your interest??? Then if that's the case - you have to make a move don't you. So the question, as you rightly ask is how, without spoiling the rest of your classes. Here are my suggestions: 1) Wait till the end of your course, then make a direct pass. 2) Stay behind after class when everyone else gone, make your interst known. 3) Ask him for his phone number as you might need to phone him if you get stuck on homework. 4) Stay after class and talk to him about life etc and try to find out about his other interests. Good luck.
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reader, Emzy1591 +, writes (26 October 2007):
 Ask him out for a coffee or something? Just get to know him and see how things go. Dont make a direct pass because he could knock you back, if u ask him for coffee you can find out about him in general conversation e.g. if he is in a relationship/marriage etc and general things like that. That way he might see u in a different light too and maybe things might develop.
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