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I fancy her so much it hurts!

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Question - (7 December 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 7 December 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, *ougatxxx writes:

well... i have this friend, well i say friend its more of a person i just say hi too really. but first thing is that she is a girl and so am i and i like her more than just a friend, i fancy her too death, i mean its killing me how much i like her, well i dont think she is intrested in girls... i think you can never tell anymore i guess. i have tried stopping liking her which was virtually impossible. she does say things too me like oh your so pretty or i want to get to no you better you no stuff like that which are i no are harmless and dose'nt mean she likes me in the same way back but it hurts so much knowing is probebly straight, i'm bi and alot of people no that, i think she no's that too. i want her so bad :( but i need some advice on this question, how do i no she is straight, she is giving me signs back like smiling at me or looking at me from across the class room, i dunno maybe am being paraniod. i just wanna no if you can tell if a girl likes you back or if you can tell if they are straight? hope someone can help me? xxx

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A female reader, Steena26 United Kingdom +, writes (7 December 2010):

Steena26 agony auntWell I agree with AuntyAlexxmo in the fact that if she knows you're bi, she could be being flirty to get the attention but u know her better than us... is she the type of person to be like that?

my advice would be to maybe ask around and if u get no joy, just spend more time hanging around with her, if possible, just the 2 of you together, and i'm sure it wouldnt take long for you to figure out whether or not she's straight...

good luck :) x

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A female reader, AuntyAlexxmo United Kingdom +, writes (7 December 2010):

AuntyAlexxmo agony auntYour so young, yet you seem very switched on which is so nice to see. Your right this girl maybe straight and just want to be your friend, if this is true then maybe you need to decide if you can cope just been friends with her or if that would to to hard for you. Does this girl flirt with you? If so she maybe something you may not have experienced but trust me all bi/gay girls do, which are straigh girls that flirt with there gay girl friends because they like the attention.

with all this said she maybe bi, the best way for you to find out without just asking her is to spend time with her and ask her questions like which celebrities she finds attractive or seeing if spending time together will bring you closer.

i hope this helps and good luck =]

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