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male
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:During summers, us friends plan on going to the pool/beach. The thing is, I have several female friends, and I'm quite anxious about it. Not from the creepy way - the opposite actually. I don't have sexual thoughts of them, nor see them that way, and I don't want to. I'm more afraid of my body taking control while my brain doesn't.Every time I find a lame excuse why not too, because it'll be embarrassing mostly for me and them. Again, I don't want to feel anything sexual for them, nor see them in that way, but stupid teenage body says otherwise.My question is...what can I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (5 August 2011):
 You have to realize that this is completely normal and not embarrasing. I'm pretty sure some of my female friends have notice that if we are joking around and say I am tickling one of them I will go hard, it just happens. I think at some point every opossite sex friend has some dirty thought about the other even if it is very brief. It is natural and you shouldn't let it cause you to miss out on spending time with them.
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