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I don't want to be pushy about us getting back together officially, but I don't want him to think I'm not serious and meet someone else either!

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Question - (21 March 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 21 March 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, *ostintranslation92 writes:

I want to get back together with my exboyfriend we've been together for about 2 years but have been on and off since October. It's been a rough few months with terrible fights and names but somehow we still end up together. Were together now but whenever I ask him to make it official or at least be officially together he says he doesn't know. I'm so confused because when were together were so happy and fit so perfect and we see each other enough that it's almost like were dating. Basically I just don't know the steps to take next. I haven't brought up us getting back together for 2 weeks now. I don't want to be so pushy about getting back together but at the same time I don't want him to not think I'm serious and start to find someone else. Please help!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2011):

The problem with a lot of moderm women these days is that they treat men like they are the prize...You demote yourself because of a man..So what if he finds someone else? His loss....You are behaving like a woman without options...He is almost giving you everything? Well I be honest with you he is just throwing you enough CRUMBS to keep you roped in....You need to see yourself as a very desirable woman and go out there and date..Stop getting hung up on him...Even if you date him, in your current status, you will always be the type of girlfriend who worries about her man liking or admiring other women....Stop this kind of thinking now....I would want you to google a woman Calle Rori raye on you tube...she has a few short presentation on relationships, listen to what she has to say about relationships and raising your status...She also writes a few articles on havetherelationshipyowant.com with a few video tips on the site...Let me know what you think after reading these articles perharps you will have an idea on what next to do

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