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writes: So he rejected mean while back. He has a girlfriend now but their relationship is based on possessiveness. They have a strong rope around each others necks. He gives her so much but she doesnt do anything in return. Plus hes been having some personal issues. At least that's what the guidance counselors told me. I want to be there for him as a friend but I still like him... he told me when he rejected me "If you would've said something sooner, something could've happened. " I'm still hung up on that. Maybe he'll come around. Ugh I dont know what to do. My friends have tried to tell them that they have an unhealthy relationship but they don't listen. I love him and I want him to be happy but he's clearly not in a good relationship. I don't want to be a third wheel and I'd never tear him apart from a girl he likes but deep down I wish he'd see me like I do him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2013): Don't give him the cold shoulder, but leave him alone. He obviously hasn't the strength to leave her, something he'll have to learn the hard way.
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