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writes:Okay,So I don't really know where to start with this.I have a friend, also a girl, and we're not the best of friends, but the way we act would make you think otherwise.We're not really into deep conversations or anything, a general chat would be "hey, love you, how are you" then we fight a little, then we make up and then finish with more "love you" type talk. We're like that when we talk in person, we're like that when we im. When we are together we cuddle a lot. A friend of mine described it as a relationship without the sexual part, which is right.I have absolutely no doubt in my mind that I don't want her for anything sexual, but i do crave her attention.Anyway, lately she's been ignoring me. I don't know how we've gone from one extreme to the other....Any suggestions? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for your response :)
she has a boyfriend, so i don't know if that would be it.
im not sure what to think.
is she ignoring me because she wants more attention
is she ignoring me because she thinks i want more so she wants to keep distance
or like you said, i guess that might be true :S
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (14 January 2010):
 She may have a boy in her life and would feel guilty about being like that with you. Ask her if she does but make sure not to sound too sad if it cuddling has to stop and just be a friend if that is what you want.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (14 January 2010):
This might be a case of you liking her as a friend, but her liking you much more than she would like to admit. I think it's worth talking to her to make sure she's okay.
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