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writes:I have a friend who broke up with her boyfriend about 2 months ago.Recently she messaged me "I was thinking about you and wanted to see how you were. I miss you"We are not close friends but we have known each other for several years. She then said "We should get together sometime"I agreed to it and I said let's meet at a restaurant. She is excited and said she looks forward to seeing me, she even wanted to know what she should wear.A few days later she text messaged me to see how I was. This is all happening pretty fast, like all of a sudden she is thinking about me.Is she maybe interested in me?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (24 March 2012):
I think, at this stage, it's more likely that she's hurting from that break-up and is looking for some sort of emotional connection with another man. Whether she's looking for another guy, or she's just a bit confused at this stage, is the confusing part.
I think at this stage your best bet is to treat this entirely as a friendship, and just give her time to come to terms with her break-up. You don't want to end up being a rebound, and you also don't want to end up taking this all the wrong way.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2012): Not sure. Some people just like to stay in contact with their friends and maintain some connection so you don't completely fall out of each others lives. Sort of like maintainingbyour network. She could be just doing that. As for saying she misses you and wondering what to wear, that would depend on what she normally was like to you in general. I would just have dinner with her but not assume anything until then.
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