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I don't understand if this guy was genuine or not?

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Question - (5 November 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 6 November 2011)
A female Australia age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I don't understand if this guy was genuine or not? I met him and we got along and both obviously were attracted to each other.. Then he disappeared during the night and i didn't see him again, so i took the hint he wasn't interested and bailed.

Well i saw him again randomly a few nights ago and although i recognised him i chose not to say anything, but he was the one who came over and said he remembered me and said he was sorry about leaving, That there was a misunderstanding along the way, because he did want to see me. but that didn't matter because he was just happy to run into me again because he was annoyed that he didn't get my number or a way to contact me that night. So i gave him my number, but that was on wednesday, it's been two days and he hasn't contacted me yet!? I don't understand why he would apologise, make the effort to talk to me and ask for a way to contact me, if he was not going to bother....?

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (6 November 2011):

aunt honesty agony auntJust give him some time. If he went out of his way to go up and talk to you well then it must mean because he wanted to go up and speak to you. He is probably delaying contacting you because he is plucking up the courage and nervous. Just wait it out and am pretty sure he will contact you some time soon.

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A female reader, aunt earnest United States +, writes (5 November 2011):

aunt earnest agony auntHe sounds like a decent guy, and he seems to like you and your company. What came up at the party before is probably related to what is delaying his call now, so I wouldn't worry about it. If he took the trouble to apologize and get your number, it is very probable that he will call and try to see you again, because he likes you. Good luck! :)

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